In my opinion, both parties are to blame, so will the men stop blaming the women for their infidelity and lack of self-control, and will the women stop asking the men to grow up and push argument. Women shouldn’t tittilate the male senses and lead them into temptation, and men, you should know better than to let your urges get to the better of you.Which brings me into the question - how right is right, and should we judge a woman by what she wears?

Does a spaghetti strapped shirt, or a nice halter neck shirt fall into the right category? Would a loose-fitting blouse which reveals a woman’s cleavage be considered normal? Tune in to MTV and you’ll see singers in corsets, or, further pushing the limits of revelation, nothing at all except what covers where’s private. Are formal dresses, blouses, skirt and pants the only apparel that’s “right”?

Would wearing a more-revealing-than-usual attire make a woman less respectable? If a highly respectably-dressed woman chooses to go Casual Friday and wear a sleeveless shirt, would she lose the respect of others
Would wearing a nun’s robes make a prostitute more respectable?
What else is right? Is it okay to wear thin strappy dresses, sleeveless or even, shoulder-baring dresses for a prom, a wedding, a dinner party? After all, it’s been a long time since brides wear shoulder-baring gowns, does that make them any less “pure”?

There will be situations where we’re allowed to let our hair down and show more than we usually do. And there are also situations that calls for more decent dressing. But what happens when people start judging? Different people have different opinions and they also come from different cultures.

To me, it’s not your attire, but how you wear them. I have strappy shirts myself, and halters, but it’s out of preference that I also don a cardigan or something over it. No one controls what I wear. And yes, sometimes I do go out and show my shoulder (eg, balls, dinners…)

Some girls dress sexily to emphasize their beauty, some to become more flattering, and some people don’t think of what others might think. I don’t care what people say about me, although my own dressing have been a topic of discussion more than once - not because I dress sexily (I have nothing to show off) but because they deem me “formal”.

Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to make themselves beautiful.

So what’s “decent” and what’s “indecent”? And would an indecent woman wearing decent clothes be “decent”, and a decent woman who, for just a day, chose to let her hair down, be deemed “indecent”?

What makes a woman decent? Inner self or what they wear? In everything there is always 2 sides of a coin. Wearing what is decent is a subjective matter that is dependant on may factors that has ben mention. However people failed to see why that person is dressed in such a way. I am talking in general male and female. Women are the usually the one being bombarded with indecent dressing. Why? is it the way of how GOD created them or is it the sin of man? It is just hard to judge who is right or wrong because every single human being has it’s own thought and views

Decent and proper are 2 different aspects to me. Decent means that you are dressed accordingly to the function, culture or beliefs(decent clothing means non revealing stuff). Proper does not necessary need to be decent but in tune to what the surroundings are the way it is. For example are you going to shorts and faded t-shirt to a prom. Every sane human being would know what to wear on a prom night. My opinion is that what we wear gives other people a clear picture of who you are. But if we wear what people are comfortable with and also having confidence in what we wear to me that is proper. Decent is another aspect but it does have the similarities of the “proper” dressing

Confidence is very important. To me i rather make my own fashion than follow other people. Fashion is what you make and not follow.Dont listen to what other people say believe in yourself but also take advice when your know you have reached a limit of what people are comfortable of.

Well women who tend to wear too revealing are usually regarded in the eyes of other women as promiscuous. I totally agree with you Jinny that is it does not matter what is adorned on a body of a woman but the way she carries herself speaks for itself. Even if a prostitute is to be dressed in the finest of cloths and decorated with the most priceless jewelery, her image may be disguised but can her lewd actions be disguised? It is not our judgment call to dictate what women should wear nowadays. As long as we ourselves know the limits of how a proper lady should be dressed and also to carry ourselves with dignity, baring a little shoulder or wearing a skirt which bares some leg is OK as long we do not become too extreme. Seriously teenagers’ dressing nowadays has improved compared to the ‘hot pants’ fashion era.Now that was atrocious as their butt cheeks were practically hanging out from their tiny sorry for an excuse of a pants. Hahaha

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